How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:01
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How do I identify fake friends in life?
Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What is the best reply if your boyfriend asks you,"why do you love me?"
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Ask yourself:
Hangs out with loser friends.
That's it for today.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Are there many people here who suffer from schizophrenia?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How likely is it to make a living out of being a window cleaner in a Nordic country?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How can I fall asleep fast at night?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What does it feel like to "lose your looks" to age?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What I need from you?